As an early years teacher, consultant, author, and perhaps most importantly, a mummy to a very busy four-year-old, people often assume I'll have a beautifully planned summer.
Colour-coded activities.
Carefully organised days out.
A bucket list of experiences.
A schedule packed with educational opportunities.
But this year?
I'm not making a summer plan.
And honestly, that feels like the most intentional decision I've made all year.
Because after spending more than 20 years working with young children, visiting hundreds of settings and studying Scandinavian approaches to childhood, I've come to believe something quite radical:
Children don't need more activities.
They need more childhood.

Inspired by the slow-paced family life I’ve observed in parts of Scandinavia and Canada, we're leaning into:
Unhurried mornings
Time outdoors each day
Cosy rituals like reading, crafting, and sharing food
No fixed agenda—just flow.

Before the holidays begin, I’m simplifying our environment:
Rotating toys
Clearing out the excess
Creating calming, open-ended spaces that invite creativity and calm
Because less stuff = more play.

We’re jotting down simple local places we might want to visit—no pressure, just inspiration:
The local library
A shaded stream
Moorland rambles
A picnic by a waterfall
We’ll choose what feels right on the day.

With slow days ahead, I’m gathering a few creative essentials:
Air dry clay
Watercolours
Beads and string
Not for structured crafts—but for those moments when inspiration strikes.
If I'm honest, this isn't really about summer.
It's about childhood.
Everywhere I look, life seems to be speeding up.
Children are rushed.
Adults are rushed.
Learning is rushed.
Childhood is rushed.
And yet the happiest, calmest and most connected children I meet are rarely the busiest.
They're the ones who have time.
Time to play.
Time to wonder.
Time to be bored.
Time to explore.
Time to simply be children.
That's what I want for Oliver this summer.
And perhaps that's what many of us want for the children in our lives too.
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Because the goal isn't to fill every moment of childhood.
The goal is to create enough space for childhood to unfold.
And maybe that's not a lack of a plan after all.
Maybe it's the most important plan we could ever make. 🤍
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